a fuck boy is someone who says âiâm bad at relationshipsâ as if itâs nearly an absolute truth. a fuck boy is also someone who is just sooo emotional that he cannot deal with it:
âi canât even.â âi just canât.â âthis is too much for me.â
he, the fuck boy, is fundamentally confused and is unsure of what he wants. however, he will seemingly sincerely play like he is more involved or enamored than he actually is in interest of getting romantic attention and scratching the romantic/sex itch. he is superficially intimate, as if acting from a script he knows all too well. fuck boy operates from a superficial level of consciousness and although he will seem like he is connected time will show you that he never was.
he does not care about the details of your day, your friends or family, the beautiful complexity of your essence. fuck boy is unable to truly respect and be present with any woman he is with. he has a hard time respecting women as whole human beings and furthermore he lacks self-awareness about this.
âfuckboyâ continued: he thinks quite highly of himself and how he operates in the world but he continues to inevitably and regrettably lament, with remarkable futility, just how bad he is at relationships.
fuck boys are usually idealizing something or someone from the past â likely another woman that he undervalued or disrespected in a former relationship. and the fuck boy is just so emotional about it.
he will live in the past or idealize the future â but the fuck boy will never embrace the joy of what is in front of him. the complexity of the present is just too much to bareâ¦
but thatâs neither here nor there because the fuck boy basically does not like thinking about his feelings right now.
so, heâll go on dreaming of a past thatâs long gone or of a future that will never come. he will always disappoint. beware. fuck boys often seem special and endearing at firstâ¦until you find out that heâs a fucking fuck boy. and, by the time you find out youâve already fallen for him and bought into a persona he effortlessly projects. you like that he didnât come on too strong but came on strong enough. fuck boys are often superficially very enjoyable people so you have a sense that heâs great company. when his coldness and distance emerges you will feel shock and heartache. endure it. remember, youâve been fooled. be grateful upon realizing the fuckery of the fuck boy because, my sister, you just dodged a bullet. run and donât look back.
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