Rationally contained-in-control of emotion.
When he heard the news of the divorce, he remained sterical.
Older women who prey on younger men are referred to as a cougar. Cougars over 65 years of age are Turkey Vultures. Much like cougars, they prey on the inebriated and sopht minded.
He was so drunk at the bar last night a Turkey Vulture got him.
Cantankerous or ill willed while meaning good intentions due to respect.
The man is a jackass but is honery with his revolutionary intentions.