It is what it is

Of course it's an old time saying and such, but these days, at least in SD, it's stalker language. For "this is what it will always be like" &"you can't do anything about it" and a way for them to justify their actions by just saying "that's just life!" Like they don't have a choice but to stalk people. Anyway, I dont know if its universal but maybe it can help.

"it is what it is"
"no, it most definitely is not"