caramel, as in, not vanilla, but not far from it. a person who describes themselves as kinky, but is as close to vanilla as possible, without actually being it. generally boring people who describe themselves as more sexually interesting for clout.
She's not vanilla, she's more of a caramel girl.
She's not like kinky, but not vanilla, more of a caramel girl who likes a light slap on the bum once in a while, then watches 50 shades of grey, and calls it bdsm.