sandbagger

noun - derogatory - a sexual partner that does not actively participate in sexual interaction. A person who merely lies still during sexual activity, with the expectation that the other person will do all the work. The term should not be used when referencing people who are physically handicapped or sexually inexperienced. The term is encouraged when referring to a person who has suggested through conversation or action that they are sexual experienced, and still does not actively participate in the sexual activities that they are willing participants of.

He is such a sandbagger! He just lays there, expecting me to do all the work. What about my needs? One should give as much as one gets!

sandbagger

noun - derogatory term for a sexual poser, or sexual “taker,” as opposed to a sexual “giver” - a sexual partner (non-binary, female, male, etc.) who does not actively participate in sexual interaction or activity. A sexually active person who expects that the other participants will do all the work for them. The term is generally used when referring to a sexual partner who claims to be sexually experienced, while demonstrating no proactive contributions to the act of love making itself. The term should never be used in reference to people who are physically handicapped, knowingly sexually inexperienced, role-playing, or are victims of sexual assault.

If you’re wanting to get laid well tonight, I would avoid that one. He is such a sandbagger! He just lies there and expects you to do all the work. I’d be surprised if he even works up the initiative to jack-off properly. One should give as much as one gets!