dig

To intentionally make an inappropriate remark towards someone's behavior; a personal jab at someone's ego.

Jared: *Picks up the bill at the restaurant*
Josephine: "You fucking bitch, I said I was going to pay!"
Jared: *zones out, fumbles for words*
Josephine: U good bro? That wasn't a dig; I love you man thank you so much for paying I'll get you next time."