The action of attempting to insert a flaccid object into a tight hole.
"Dammit Billy, I'm trying to thread my tippet into this indicator and it's a total Buttery Bobcat going on over here."
"I was at the brothel last night and was so drunk I totally did a Buttery Bobcat"
When one sleeps on their back with a knife or forearm clutched closely to their chest in anticipation of a predator awakening them.
I got real tired on my camping trip so I took a quick bobcat nap.
Nothing to do with a cougar in training, this a stubbly-faced freak who after 11:07 PM (ET) will be all up in your grill (assuming you are a good looking lady who is younger than himself) about a late night hookup. That would be a Bobcat.
But in the case of a REVERSE Bobcat, like others in the cat family, once it has captured its prey and has the capability to do with it what it will : nothing interesting happens. It was all meow, no claws.
"That older guy over there, Steve McFeelington seems like a good fellow, Margaret. Mayhaps you and him should haveth a roll in thy hay."
"No way, Cindie - Trisha said he's a total reverse bobcat. I don't want no scrubs. A scrub is a reverse bobcat who won't get no love from me."
A cougar that used to be a man.
She's got and older. A Bobcat I hear. Go for it.
A male homosexual that frequently seeks out the company and affections of much younger men (e.g., homosexual male version of the often used "Cougar" describing an older woman that is attracted to and dates much younger men).
My 45 year-old next door neighbor is quite a Bobcat, there is always a steady stream of 20 something guys going into his 1 bedroom house after the clubs close, and then appearing for the walk of shame as they scurry to an Uber in the morning.