Rural Dictionary

Yanning

When you're supposed to be working but instead you take a nap on your employer's dime.

Hey how hard were you working today
Oh I was yanning for most of the day to cure my hangover
Sweet

by The yanner May 6, 2022

Despite how it looks, irl yan is not a term used to say you are the real depiction of a yandere. IRL YAN is a coined term by the IRL YAN coping community. Reclaiming the term IRL YAN as a way of saying “ I use the term yandere to cope “.

This is because yandere comes from the words yanderu , to be mentally ill or sick. And deredere , to be cute and lovey dovey.

Being mentally ill is not inherently going to make you violent or a bad person and the community uses the fictional exaggeration of yandere to cope with intrusive thoughts , dissociation , OCD , BPD , NPD , codependency , anxiety , and depression… the list goes on. Though the coping mechanism can be used in a somewhat albeit manner , this doesn’t go for everyone within the community.

There are also other communities such as the lovesick recovery community for IRL YANS.

Real IRL YAN : “ yeah I’m an irl yan , I use the term to cope “

Fake IRL YAN : “ UwU I’m a yandere for real stabby stabby “

Toxic IRL YAN usage : “ Yeah , I’m an IRL yan , I will literally try to attack him if he talks to another female “

Healthy IRL yan usage : “ I’m an IRL YAN , but I don’t act out on the belief of actually being the fictional depiction of yandere by using violence. “

by Be educated September 16, 2023

Kim-Yan

Kim-Yan is an awesome man that never lets you down if he thinks you deserve it.

He is a hard worker but he can be duped from time to time by a hint of laziness. When he is in his inner world you can be sure he is going to take you in with him. Kim loves to have deep conversations about anything but he sure does wish for an eternity chat about weird and mind blowing convos with a friend or a crazy dude he just met.

Ugo : Who is this guy talking about conspiracy shit with Clemen over there ?

Samouel : Don’t mind him... That’s just Kim-Yan talking nonsense again.

by Beeabee November 22, 2021