She wanted an untamable image and an outlaw poster, but the reality was there were people far more stubborn, far more independent/self reliant/loners by nature, and far less competitive about life that thought the untamable image was silly. She seemed more like someone who wanted to fit a loner image when that was convenient, a social image when that was convienient, an untamable image when that was convenient, and a responsible even slighty subserviant housewife image when that was convenient.
There's a difference between really being untamable and looking/sounding untamable to fit an untamable image.
Somebody that wants to tame/calm down everybody else, but doesn't want a taste of their own medicine, because they have an untamable image/reputation to protect.
She had an untamable image to protect, no matter who's hopes and dreams she had to take to get hope of her own.
Something the same as something else
Me and him are like a split image!
When you're looking up something online, click on images, and see the first few results. At first, it isn't too bad. But sooner or later, once you scroll into the deeper in, you'll start finding some fucked up stuff, like rule 34 of what you looked up. You won't be able so unsee any of that.
Joey: BRO WHAT THE HELL, THAT'S MESSED UP
Matt: I told you, don't scroll down too far, you'll see deep in images like that
Someone who thinks they hit a lot harder than they actually do.
He/she always talked about being a hard hitter, or how his/her songs, writing, or words were somehow hard hitting, to make it sound tougher than it was. He/she had a hard hitting image to defend.