All-male breakup party.
To memorialize a breakup, a party only for the guys. Everyone dresses up comfortably, dressing up only for themselves and not for the ladies. Any drinks stay on the calm side, nobody's going overboard. The night is filled with gaming, delectable food, and occasional harmless dares or jokes. To let off some steam, there's a chill "revenge" ritual, like throwing out some photos of them with their ex, or sharing some bad experiences with their former lovers.
Note: Close friends may attend, but only if the person they're friends with allows it, no matter their gender.
John: "She broke up with me, man!"
Dan: "It's alright dude, just forget about her. We're having a Bruff Party later at my place, you coming?"
John: "Definitely man, thanks. I'll bring some stuff to toss out."
Licking and/or sucking someone's bootyhole. South African slang for "rim-job".
1. She wants to bruff him.
2. Q: What do you think they do in those locker rooms?
A: Probably have bruff meetings or something.