Fuck what it was. Fuck what it could’ve been.
#1 Friend: I’m sorry it didn’t work out, I really thought she’d be the one for you.
You: it is what it is
"Can't change the past." It is what it is. "This happen to whoever." It is what it is. A saying all should live by.
Friend 1: my partner cheated on me with
you and I didn't know about it
until I cheated on them with
you?? Wtf??
Friend 2: It is what it is. Chill.
Acceptance of the inevitable and what you have no control over.
"My wife is suing me for divorce."
"Well, it is what it is."
A covert way of telling someone you’re in love with them
I know we haven’t dated long, but I think it is what it is.
When a man wants to tell a woman he is in love with her but can’t
“I know we’ve only been dating a short time but it is what it is.”
Of course it's an old time saying and such, but these days, at least in SD, it's stalker language. For "this is what it will always be like" &"you can't do anything about it" and a way for them to justify their actions by just saying "that's just life!" Like they don't have a choice but to stalk people. Anyway, I dont know if its universal but maybe it can help.
"it is what it is"
"no, it most definitely is not"
the phrase you use when you try to accept the fact that your life is a piece of shit
-"im sorry you lost"
- "it is what it is"