Bangfodder

This is a situation where a woman of average or below average looks is repeatedly either told she's beautiful looking by her friends, followers on social media or men through online dating apps leading her to believe she's actually in fact much better looking than she really is resulting in the woman thinking she can attain relationships with much more desirable men

However, the more desirable men she pursues are attracted to her only enough to have sex with but not consider her as long term relationship material . So the woman under the false belief that she's more attractive than she is ends up in a repetitive cycle of situationships instead of the long term relationships she desires.

My friend Kayla seems to have a new guy every 4 or 5 months. There's always a disparity in looks with them. The guys are tall and good looking. Kayla is chubby and kind of frumpy looking. She's a good friend I've always told her she looks stunning when she complains about all the guys that never want to commit. I know it's mostly my fault she gets used as "bangfodder" but I just can't be honest with her bc women support each other! We're all amazing brave and beautiful! Guys are jerks.