This is a combination of "cat fishing" and "gas lighting". When some pretends to be someone they're not and then tries to convince you that they never gave you that idea.
This guy tried catlighting me. I was convinced when we chatted that he was a Top... but he was on all 4s as soon as we met.
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cat·light
/ˈcatˌlīt/
verb
gerund or present participle: gaslighting
Manipulate humans (and dogs) using psycatogical methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning. Ex. meowing at nothing as if something is there or meowing and pretending you didn't.
Meow.
What do you need, Cat?
*cat stares at nothing, as if nothing has occurred*
Stop catlighting me!
(yes, the example is stupid. UD forced me to do it.)