reffen

to refer to; to make mention of; pertain or pertaining to; to touch on; to deal with, as related to!
Background Info: I am a 75 yr old grandfather. The other day, I was talking to my grandsons 18 and 14 years old. I made a statement, they ask, “who are you referring too? I said I’m reffen .....
Then we established the spelling! Reffen

Who are you reffen? Are you reffen me? they were reffen this yesterday. It was good to have someone reffen me.