TMTSTT-why: The Moment They Start Talking To You, the moment you have no clue as to how quickly or fast to get away before the "chitchat" starts.
TMTSTT-why is an allergic reaction to chitchat, it might be the intonation, i can feel my arches going south....it needs pepper...it needs a lot of pepper and prepare to have loooooooooooong midwinter tune out naps. But as they say "chitchat" is part of the friendship deal.
"check my pulse! Why? ...is it TMTSTT-why? Yes. it needs pepper."
"let's go eat something with the guys over there, that group of people give me instant TMTSTT-why! Cool."
"breathe woman breathe...you give me TMTSTT-why."