Vaglidation

When men (simps and fuckboy/pickupers) are self-validating with, being proud of and worrying about their sexual 'body count' and/or are dependent on and worrying about female perception of them, as well as seeking constant societal validation with the fact of having said female attention (even regardless of the type of relationship, your position in it, etc details); as well as projecting the same mentality to judge others with - like assuming others also having vaglidation - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
It's the life purpose of a simp, as well as their Dunning-Kruger.

simps always placing women on a pedestal
- lol incel
- don't project your vaglidation

Vaglidation

When men (mainly simps, fuckboy/pickupers, whiteknights) are self-validating with, being proud of and dependent/worrying about female attention & perception of them, own 'body count' & desirability, as well as societal validation with from it (regardless of the type of relationship he's having or his position in it).

Projecting the same mentality to judge others with it - assuming others also have vaglidation goals - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
In other words it's the life purpose/goal/prize of a simp, as well as their intrusive biased projections onto other men (theor empathy bias also prevents them from thinking otherwise).

simps always placing women on a pedestal
- lol incel
- don't project your vaglidation