alienmoder

An Alienmoder is a sort of gender identity that a person can give themselves or be given by others who have no idea what their biological sex is.

An alienmoder is a person or "thing" that is so androgynous and/or almost look so incredibly inhuman and sort of or does resemble an alien. They might be incredibly andronygous or an unholy mixture of incredibly masculine and incredibly feminine features. Most alienmoders are so alien that they may refer to themselves with the pronouns "its/it/itself," because they feel like the Thing from the Addams Family and might passionately identify with him. They also might passionately identify with Cousin Itt. Most likely why their pronouns are it/its/itself. Or other people might be reminded of those things when they see them and call them by those pronouns themselves.

You also can always be an alienmoder on the inside too.

Guy 1: "Bro, look at it over there. What gender are they?"

Guy 2: "What the hell is that alienmoder doing here?"