A gay male who acts stupid and foolish in an argument or heated situation.
Inspired by the word "Airbender".
Gay male: "Are you sad that I talk to more girls than you do?"
You: "Shut the fuck up anal-bender."
A slur to call a gay man who is annoying, being too much or causing trouble.
Gay man: "Are you mad that I talk to more girls than you?"
Me: "Shut up anal-bender."