When you are having sexual relations with a big ol' Girl and she is on top and your penis slides out and her big ol' Booty slams down on your hard dick bending it in ways a mans penis should not bend.
Me - Hey dude I was getting rode by big ol' Darlene last night and she bent my unit in half.
Dude - She is a classic Big Booty Dick Bender
A large whet used to provoke her beast.
She appreciated his sophisticated use of big bender.