interchafing

inter-chafing or interchafing - Any interface with an unmodifiable design flaw that annoys the user. Continued use often amplifies the annoyance.

"The position of the button on my steering wheel is very interchafing."
"I find the lack of options on this phone to be highly interchafing."
"Why did they design this product with such a dumb handle? This is really interchafing."