oroboros

going crazy by concerning about concerns to the point that it's too relevant to you despite your daily experience because of expressively concerning about concerns to the reasons why like they'd understand or wouldn't intentionally misunderstand to keep you playing into their fantasies of feeling like their own circumstances changed.

the kiddie diddlers in the 1990s tried hoaxing an oroboros by manipulating their victims to reenact concerning about their concerns which they didn't learn from to pretend that they're like somebody else.