A guy who has romantic feelings for a girl and who buys dinners, airline tickets, lends money to her even though he knows he will never in a million years sleep with her. The pussynotizer also knows that she holds power over him by making him feel that he does stand a one in a trillionth chance of sleeping with her. She also knows that if she ever does sleep with him that she relinquishes her pussynotizing spell
Example 1:
Person 1: Wow he really does look like he's in love with her.
Person 2: Nah she has pussynotized him, dude will spend a lot of cash and never see her naked
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