quoisexual

A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum:

1. A person who cannot distinguish between sexual attraction and other types of attraction, such as romantic or platonic attraction.
2. A person who cannot understand sexual attraction as a concept or feeling.
3. A person who is unsure whether or not they experience sexual attraction.

Also known informally as wtfsexual.

Anna: I'm quoisexual
Tom: wtf does that mean
Anna: it means I can't distinguish between sexual attraction and other types of attraction
Tom: Oh, well basically, sexual attraction is when you...
Anna: trust me I've looked up many definitions, I know what sexual attraction means, I just don't notice the difference between it and other types.
Tom: no but then romance is different because..
Anna: don't even try

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quoisexuality

Quoisexuality is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. The use of the prefix quoi- originates with Quoiromantic (also known as WTFromantic or Whatromantic). While quoisexuality is often defined as being unable to distinguish sexual attraction from another type of attraction, this is not its only (or even primary) use.

Quoisexual is a broad term encompassing the experience of:

Being unsure if you experience attraction or not
Being unable to understand attraction as a concept or feeling
Finding the concept of attraction inaccessible, inapplicable, nonsensical
Being unable to define sexual attraction and so unable to say whether or not you experience it
Having difficulty distinguishing sexual attraction from other types of attraction
Struggling to find a sexual orientation that is applicable to you because attraction is too complicated or because none seem to fit
Not experiencing sexuality, sexual orientation or sexual attraction as it is normally defined.

(definition from rainbowpedia on wikia)

The quoisexual flag is black, white, green and cyan (horizontal, in that order)

Quoisexuality is not the same as questioning, and yet some idiots still claim that quoisexuals are 'just confused' and will 'understand it eventually'. No. Quoisexuals are not ' just confused' and will probably never understand it considering most of them have gone through a long process of trying to understand and have figured out that they can't. Go away and come back when you are better educated.

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