emotional pollution

Noun. A distracting and excessive cloud of feelings that surrounds a complainer and overcasts an event. May include complaints drenched in anger or grief, but not a physical solution. Used to push others away with its feckless toxicity.

--He could have done his homework, but instead just spent an hour complaining about it. The air was so thick with emotional pollution, I just had to get out of there.

--I think she had a problem with my attitude, but I couldn't care less. She just babbled emotional pollution of "blah blah blah." Some people live to perfect their outrage.

scornflakes

Noun. Angry passive-aggressive snowflakes who use harsh words to depreciate the character or values of other people. Their goal is to communicate hate at the dehumanized target and to encourage others to devalue their victim. Scornflakes are not the same as bullies, who can be physical. They are more like some kinds of extremely emotional internet trolls, like what you find in call out culture and Twitter.

Scornflake: Don't like abortion? You must love kids. Pedophile.
Victim: Wow. Without non-sequiturs, you scornflakes would have nothing to say.
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Scornflake: Does your baby believe in man-made global warming? No? He's a denier/birther/homophobe.
Victim's parent: That's a lot of hate, scornflake. Do you feel better now that you got that load of crap off of your chest?

preconsiderate

Adjective. An evolved quality of showing thoughtfulness towards someone you care about by anticipating their future needs and proactively providing for those needs. Being merely “considerate” can include holding the door open for a stranger, passing the salt, cleaning up after yourself so the next person can use the table, helping an old lady crossing the street you are also crossing. Being “preconsiderate” can include packing a gift of sunscreen, maps, or an umbrella; setting up a college fund; giving a reservation to a spa, fine dinner, or concert.

Guy: What's wrong? I'm romantic? You don't make any sense.
Girl: You are more of a roommate than a boyfriend. Why can't you be more preconsiderate? I do everything around here, for us.
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Girl: What unusual things did you bring in your backpack?
Guy: Bear repellant, your allergy meds, condoms, satellite phone, and directions to the hot springs.
Girl: That was very preconsiderate, even for you!
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Wife: Why is there plastic sheeting and baby oil in the living room?
Husband: You seemed stressed out, and those are the things we always forget when you call the neighbors over for an orgy.
Wife: Ha! I don't know if you are being preconsiderate or delirious!