equivalry

Portmanteau of "equality" and "chivalry". When a woman demands equality from men in the workplace (or other social situations) then expects chivalry from them the rest of the time....like when a spider needs squished or when the strange noise from downstairs in the middle of the night needs to be investigated.

Linda won't admit she expects equivalry because she is going for department head, but she really dressed Christopher down this morning for leaving the toilet seat up.