xirgin

One who has not had sexual intercourse, but has still done other sexual acts with a partner (i.e. oral sex, hand jobs, fingering, etc.)

Only genital stimulation performed by/for a partner qualifies one as a xirgin (i.e. not masturbation, kissing, groping, etc.)

"She hasn't been fucked but she's given head."

"So she's a virgin?"

"No, she's a xirgin."